Why Your Voice Matters Even If No One Is Listening Yet
- Dwayne Golden

- Sep 5
- 4 min read

Your Voice Matters More Than You Know
Growing up doesn’t always offer easy paths. Sometimes, it seems like the world ignores the thoughts and ideas of young girls. If you’ve ever felt invisible in a classroom or overlooked in your community, know that your voice matters more than anyone else might say. Speaking up affirms that your ideas count. Sources show that when girls are encouraged to use their voice, their access to choices and opportunity increases.
It takes courage to share ideas when no one else is paying attention. Your thoughts can be small, everyday feelings or dreams about the future. Those quiet truths help carry strength forward. You matter even on the days you feel small or unseen.
Every Voice Shapes the Future of Science and Tech
Technology and science do not grow on their own. They grow when smart minds speak up. When girls share the questions they have, the ideas they carry, it changes what’s possible. As one expert put it, women bring firsthand insight into policy and action, shaping stronger outcomes for everyone.
Access to digital tools and spaces matters too. Programs like the new digital library in San Antonio give girls from low-income homes space to learn and explore in areas like STEM and business. Tools don’t give voice, they make space for voices to rise and connect.
Speaking Up Is How Change Begins
Speaking up is not just talking. It is claiming a place in the room even if you’re the only one there. Girl-led voices are turning heads these days from tech talks to activism, young women are shaping what’s possible.
Around the world, girls are working their way into decision-making spaces. The UN, for example, invites youth voices to help guide change. Your words matter not just where you are but where you dream to go.
Confidence Grows When Truth Takes Root
Self-doubt is common, especially where paths are hard to see. One tech leader called self-doubt her toughest barrier not skill, not knowledge, but the belief that her thoughts mattered.
For many girls, the early teen years bring pressure to “blend in” and hide in plain sight. It takes faith and support to push past that noise. Each time you speak even when your voice trembles, you build confidence inside.
Small Steps Become Big Waves
You do not need to be loud to be heard. Small steps like asking one question, sharing one idea, joining a young women’s program each of these can shift something in the world.
Groups like Girls Who Code give girls access to coding clubs, summers of coding, and safe spaces to learn and lead. Women around the world are creating path breaks too among them a woman teaching coding to young Afghan girls and a coder raising up indigenous girls. Their voices started small.
Don’t Wait for Permission to Speak
Too often, girls wait until a room is ready for them. But lasting change asks us to move even when seats are not set. Evidence shows girls must be seen as active agents of change, not just beneficiaries.
When programming and communities bring attention to girls’ own capacities to lead change, good things happen.
Your Voice Earns Value
Speaking up is a skill, not a gamble. It gets stronger when practiced with words, with actions, with patience. Your voice will help others understand your dreams, your questions, your concerns.
One finding shows that when women speak at academic events, they often hold back waiting to be asked first. But your voice deserves to rise whether you are called on or not.
Using Voice to Build Trust and Opportunity
Building trust starts with showing up not just in person, but with honesty, curiosity, and presence. Whether that is talking with teachers, reaching out to programs, or posting ideas online, your voice plants seeds.
Talking opens doors. It connects you with resources. It shifts the odds toward visibility and access. When young women’s voices are included, technologies grow stronger, ideas become richer, and communities feel safer.
What You Can Do Today to Let Your Voice Be Heard
Notice when you have a question. Write it down. Ask it to someone you trust. Use programs, after-school groups, digital tools, even social media to put your ideas out there.
Supporting your own voice is worth the effort. It may slow the pace of comparison. You may feel small. But the real voice grows inside that quiet place.
Keep Speaking Until Someone Hears
Meaningful change rarely happens all at once. It starts with one voice, one sentence, one day. Keep going. Keep choosing truth when the world seems quiet.
You belong in science, tech, and every part of the future. Your voice matters, even if no one is listening yet. Soon enough, they will.
Sources:
Measuring Girls' Empowerment concepts: agency voice choice power (ICRW)
Women’s insight in environmental policy matters (Discover Wild Science)
Digital library access boosts STEM potential for girls (MySA – Girls Inc San Antonio)
Young women on TED Talks shape the future (Yahoo article)
Girls in tech startups rise and inspire (Girls for Business blog)
UN encourages youth participation in decision-making (Amplify Girls)
Overcoming self-doubt in STEM leadership (All Things Talent)
Girls hiding authenticity in preteens (Teen Vogue)
Girls Who Code impact and reach (Wikipedia)
Coding school for Afghan girls founder (Wikipedia - Fereshteh Forough)
Indigenous girls in tech – nonprofit founder (Wikipedia - Danielle Forward)
Girls leading change not just programs (Gates Foundation)
Need better multi-level support for girls' voice (GAGE review)
Women speak up less at academic events (Research via arXiv)
More women in tech drives innovation and equity (Forbes)
Online access gaps affect girls worldwide (UN Women)
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