From Summer Dreams to Lifelong Goals
- Dwayne Golden
- May 30
- 5 min read

Summer has a way of making everything feel possible. The long daylight hours and open schedules create a unique space where imagination can run free and goals can begin to take shape. For teen girls, this season can be more than a break from school. It can be a launchpad for self-discovery, leadership, and real empowerment. At YWEA, we believe summer should be full of purpose. Not the kind that overwhelms, but the kind that builds confidence, curiosity, and strength in every young woman.
While some teens may think of summer as a time to sleep in or scroll endlessly, there is something far greater waiting for them. Summer is a chance to focus on becoming the young woman they truly want to be. Whether it’s trying a new skill, joining a local community effort, or taking time for personal reflection, the choices made during these months can leave a lasting impact. Even the smallest steps matter. The key is starting with intention and having the right support system behind you.
Families play a vital role in this process. When a teen girl knows her family sees her potential and stands behind her, it becomes easier for her to believe in herself. Support doesn’t have to be grand. It can be as simple as showing up, listening, or helping her sign up for an online class or local camp. That kind of encouragement makes all the difference. Together with YWEA, families can help their daughters use summer not just to rest, but to grow into strong, smart, and confident women.
Summer Is More Than a Break
It’s tempting to think of summer as a time to disconnect. School pressures fade, alarm clocks go off less, and routines get relaxed. But for girls in their early teens, this break can sometimes stretch too long. Without a focus, the time can slip by. What starts as a chance to recharge can quickly turn into boredom or even anxiety about the next school year. That’s why it helps to reframe summer from something to escape into something to build from.
Young women between 13 and 18 are in a powerful season of life. Their brains are forming values, their hearts are testing trust, and their voices are learning to be heard. These years are some of the most critical for shaping identity. When the school year ends, the shaping doesn’t stop. It just moves to new spaces. Whether that’s a summer enrichment program, a part-time job, or a quiet corner at home with a journal, every experience counts.
Studies have shown that summer learning loss is real, especially for students who lack access to activities that challenge and stimulate their minds. Girls are no exception. In fact, without the right support, many girls begin to question their abilities or fall behind in subjects like math and science. That’s why it’s not just about filling time. It’s about filling hearts, minds, and spirits. Summer can be fun, but it can also be strong
How YWEA Supports Summer Development
YWEA exists to give young women the tools they need to lead, learn, and live boldly. Summer is one of the most important times for us to stand beside them. Through workshops, virtual sessions, and local partnerships, we work to make sure every girl feels seen, valued, and ready to take on new challenges. Whether she wants to explore a passion, start a community project, or simply learn something new, YWEA is here to help make that happen.
Our programs are designed with flexibility in mind. We know not every family has the same schedule or access. That’s why we offer both in-person and online opportunities. From leadership bootcamps and confidence-building sessions to career exploration and creative expression, we strive to give girls a space to grow without judgment. These aren’t just lessons, they’re life skills that follow them well into adulthood.
One of the most impactful parts of our summer work is how we involve families. We don’t believe in doing this alone. When a mother, auntie, grandmother, or big sister joins the conversation, the lessons go deeper. We even offer family-friendly learning materials that help caregivers understand how to keep the momentum going at home. Whether it’s through conversation starters, shared projects, or support groups, we’re building a circle that lifts every girl higher.
Simple Ways to Grow This Summer
Empowerment doesn’t always look like a microphone or a spotlight. Sometimes it looks like planting a garden or reading a biography of a woman leader. It might look like volunteering at a neighborhood center, starting a journal, or helping younger kids in the community. All of these are ways to grow and none require fancy tools. What matters most is the choice to try something new.
Here are some everyday activities that build leadership and confidence:
Mentorship Moments: Older teens can offer to help younger students with reading, sports, or arts. This builds patience, communication, and empathy.
Goal Setting: Setting small, personal goals each week helps girls build habits. They might aim to read one book, cook one new recipe, or learn five new words in another language.
Community Involvement: Participating in a local event, clean-up, or campaign helps girls connect to something bigger than themselves.
Creative Outlets: Writing poetry, drawing, singing, or dancing are powerful ways to explore emotion and personal identity.
Every one of these activities helps a girl practice believing in herself. That belief is the foundation of empowerment. It grows stronger every time she tries, even if she’s nervous or unsure. Families can support these steps by being curious, asking questions, and showing genuine interest. Celebrate effort, not just results. Praise progress, not perfection.
Why It Matters
The teenage years are more than a stepping stone to adulthood. They are a time when girls begin to understand their place in the world. When we give them the time, space, and support to ask questions and take risks, we help shape strong women who are ready to lead. What happens during the summer can stick with a girl far longer than a single season. It can become part of her story.
For girls of color, this support becomes even more essential. Many face added pressures, from cultural expectations to systemic barriers, that can make confidence feel harder to claim. That’s why spaces like YWEA are not just helpful, they are necessary. We speak directly to those realities and offer support that’s both personal and powerful.
When families get involved, the outcomes multiply. Girls are more likely to finish school, pursue leadership roles, and stand up for what they believe in when their family stands with them. A dinner table conversation, a car ride pep talk, or a shared project can do more than most people imagine. Love mixed with belief is a powerful thing.
Summer is a chance to practice that love. It’s a moment to say, “You matter,” not just with words but with actions. It’s a time to say yes to growth, yes to trying, and yes to becoming. At YWEA, we’re here for every yes. We’re here for every girl. And we’re here for every family ready to walk beside her.
Final Thoughts
This summer, let's make the most of every sunny day and quiet evening. Let’s turn free time into freedom, and rest into readiness. Girls deserve more than just a season off. They deserve a season forward. Together with families and communities, YWEA is working to make sure that happens.
Whether it’s through a workshop, a conversation, or a simple act of courage, this summer can be the start of something real. Let’s raise young women who are not only smart and strong, but ready to lead their lives with purpose. Let’s choose to support them not just in words, but in the everyday ways that count.
Sources
National Summer Learning Association: https://www.summerlearning.org/the-impact-of-summer-learning-loss/
CDC on Youth Development: https://www.cdc.gov/healthyyouth/youth_development/index.htm
Afterschool Alliance on Girls and Empowerment: http://www.afterschoolalliance.org/afterschoolsnack/Girls-and-afterschool-Programs-that-empower_09-26-2018.cfm
YWCA Youth Programs Overview: https://www.ywca.org/what-we-do/young-women/
Girl Scouts Research on Girl Confidence: https://www.girlscouts.org/en/about-girl-scouts/research.html
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